Thursday, July 8, 2010

Break Ups SUCK

You guys know when ya want something to work so bad, that you just keep trying? You have this grand idea in your head of what could be.... Well that's how I feel like Rob and I could be. I didn't fully bring him into my life until quite recently even though we had been talking since OCT? Why do you think that is? Probably because it wasn't right! Follow your instincts. He's not a bad guy, and it wasn't a horrible breakup.... I even did the breaking up! But its always humiliating to break up when you yourself think its going to work, or have talked yourself into believing it. I feel a huge weight from my shoulders even though I'm a bit sad. I truly feel i made a good decision. Something was missing.

**** I know this post makes no sense and I am totally ranting! I just had to for my own sake. Sorry for my lack of blogging lately. We had a full week that kept me distracted plus i'm in the middle of moving to a new place! I have many things to blog about and I promise I'll be back in full swing by next week. Below are a couple of quotes that made me smile, laugh, and just feel better altogether! Love you guys!


  1. Oh sweet girl. My heart goes out to you. I know exactly how you feel. Even when you are the one making the decision to end things, it can be SO hard. I am not sure how much of my blog you have read, but I have been through some similar situations this year with calling off my engagement. Read this post: might offer you some comfort. Remember you have to do things for YOU most importantly. It takes a strong lady to realize when it is not right, I am proud of you for not settling for what was comfortable! I know it is hard: you will have good days and bad days, but one day you will know WHY you had to do this. :) Ok I could write a book but I have to work. Ha. Hope you are smiling today!

  2. Ok I am stopping now, hehe. But i just love this, thought you would too.

  3. Love those quotes, the last one especially :) Break ups are always tough but you are smart to let him go if you knew it wasn't right. That will bring you one step closer to finding the guy who is! It's great that you are able to use your blog and writing as an outlet, its the perfect place for 'rants' :)

  4. oh i just wish i could give you a huge hug right now and make you some blueberry cobbler! you are quite a catch lady and i know the right person is out there. i'll be thinking of you and let me know if you need anything! xoxo

  5. Hello!

    I think you should add my brother as a Facebook friend! ;)



  6. Our journey has begun!... secretly though =)

    If I’ve left you this message, you’re a follower of my original blog. Though I won’t be revealing who I am just yet – until we’re TO and THROUGH the first trimester! Just getting the word out about our new site – further explanation of all the secrecy and what we’re about on my first post now up. I’d love for you to stop by.

    Exciting things going on around here!

    ~ the {secret} *Maybe* Baby Mama